Sunday, February 25, 2018

Heirloom


Week 8 of Amy Johnson Crow's 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks prompt is Heirloom.
On February 11, 2010, I lost my grandmother, Phyllis Ann Bartley Lewis Gieseke. Her health had been failing for the previous few years and we knew the end was coming but losing her was still one of the hardest things I've been through in my life.
At the funeral a couple days later, my uncle handed me an envelope with my name on it and said my grandma wanted me to have what was inside. Inside was my grandma's wedding rings. My grandma had horrible arthritis for years so she melted down her wedding band from her first marriage to my grandpa, Roger, and her band from her second marriage to my grandpa Stan. I cried and cried but it meant so much to me to have her rings.


Growing up I loved my grandma and grandpa's oak bedroom furniture. We got to go help clean out her room at the nursing home, including her bedroom furniture. I also took the tray she always had sitting on her dresser with her hand mirror and perfume bottles. I have it set up the same way in my bedroom, with her reading glasses as well.



I also received an old candy dish that sat on her couch side table in her living room my entire life. Before my grandma, it belonged to her mother.
I was fortunate to have had my grandma in my life for almost 40 years. I have so many memories. It's nice to have these things to remind me of her as well.



Wednesday, February 14, 2018

My Valentine

Our wedding day - March 25, 1995


This week's prompt for Amy Johnson Crow's  52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks is "Valentine". 

My valentine for the last 25+ years has been my husband, Don.  I feel like, especially now-a-days, 25 years together is kind of a big deal.  We've been through a lot of ups and downs.  We've had three beautiful daughters together.  We've started a business that fortunately has survived 20+ years.  We've built two houses.  We've lost loved ones.  We're far from the "perfect" couple.  We fight and make up.  Through it all, we have always had each other's back.

We have great role models who have taught us how to love and the importance of family. I thought I would celebrate this Valentine's Day by sharing photos of those that have left a loving legacy for Don and I, and hopefully our children one day.



 



My mom and dad
Scott Lewis & Cindy Dorf
Married 48 years in May
My in-laws
Karl Hansen & Sherry Matzke
Married a few weeks short of 45 years when Karl passed away.


My paternal grandparents
Roger Lewis & Phyllis Bartley
Married just shy of 28 years when Roger died in 1972.
















My maternal grandparents
Ken Dorf & Iris Kersten
Married 25 years when Ken died in 1973.


















Don's maternal grandparents
Don Matzke & Fern Carson
Married 48 years when Fern died in 1987.


















Don's paternal grandparents
Karl Hansen & Anna Dahlblom















As my girls would say ...  #goals

Thursday, February 8, 2018

Favorite Name

This week's prompt for Amy Johnson Crow's 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks challenge is "Favorite Name".  While I don't necessarily have a "favorite name" in the family,  there were a lot of men named John, James and Samuel, lots of woman named Sarah, Hannah and Grace.  I'm sure back in their day you were named for your father or your mother, and aunt of an uncle, your grandparents.  There is one name that does sort of stick out to me on my tree - Emmeline.  There are a couple actually (the Bartley family is big!!).  I know some went by Emma, I'm not sure if they all did.  But I like the way it looks and it is a pretty name.

When I had my own daughters, we chose their middle names to represent their family.  My oldest daughter has my middle name - Christine.  My middle daughter has the female version of her dad's name - Dawn.  For my youngest, we named her after both of her grandmothers - Kaylee...Kaye being my mom's middle name and Lea being my mother-in-law's middle name.  I'm kind of hoping the girls will continue this on with their children one day.  We'd have done the same thing if we would have had boys - Robert after my husband and father-in-law and Scott after my dad.

When I was expecting my oldest daughter we chose the name Jordan.  My grandma sent me a letter one day and ended it with "PS.  Have you ever considered the name Emilie?  It was my grandmother's name".  I lost that letter in a move years ago (I cried for hours!) but it still makes me smile thinking about it.  And no, I never considered it.  She is so not an Emilie!!



Friday, February 2, 2018

In The Census

1900 census - Hancock County, Tennessee

This week's prompt for Amy Johnson Crow's #52ancestors challenge is "In the Census".  At first I thought I would write about a significant find on a certain census.  I couldn't narrow it down to just one thing so I decided to write about the different ways I have used the census reports and some interesting finds.

While I know that census reports often included incorrect information, I find it to be a great starting point.  The 1900 census is my favorite!!  The addition of birth months and years is obviously helpful.  Spelling out the relationship of everyone in the house is nice.  Number of years married can be another answer you may not have had before reading this census and may lead you towards another document to search out.  I find the number of children born/number of children living to be very interesting, and often times heartbreaking.  Birth places of the individual as well as his or her parents birth places can be hints or validation.  Immigration year, years in US and Naturalization year are nice starting points if you're not lucky enough to find your ancestors came through Ellis Island.  Occupation is nice to know as it helps to put the flesh on the bones of your ancestors. 

When I first started looking into my family history I started with the Bartley side of my family...my dad's maternal side.  I was fortunate enough to connect with many distant cousins who were willing to share info with me.  But when I started digging into the census reports, I felt I was finding things for myself.  I started with my 4x great grandparents, then I started working on their children, and then their children and so on.  I would match up the info I found in census reports with other cousins trees on Ancestry or I would check the info I found with the cousins I was talking with.  On the 1900 census for Hancock County, Tennessee, I find my 3x great grandparents living with their 31 year old daughter and 25 year old son.  Their 11 year old grandson and 10 year old granddaughter are also living with them.  My 2x great grandfather had lost his first wife nine years earlier.  I confirmed with cousins that the youngest two children were sent by train to live with their grandparents.  The older boys were on their own by then and the older girls were living with their father, his second wife and their three sons in Dallas, Taylor County, Iowa. 

On the 1920 census in Cat Spring, Austin County, Texas, I find my 2x great grandmother widowed and living with her 11 year old daughter.  Her 12 year old son is living as a boarder, also in Cat Spring. Her 9 year old son (my great grandfather) is living in Cleveland, Austin County, Texas with his grandmother and aunt and uncle.  Sad that the boys were not living with their mother.  But the thing I found even more interesting is that my 2x great grandfather was still alive!!  He is living in Burleigh, Austin County, Texas.  His marital status shows "M" for "married" with an "S" for "single" written over it.  I have heard it was common for woman to say they were widowed rather than saying they were divorced or separated.  I am unsure if they actually were divorced...still a lot more researching to do on this branch.  I do find that my 2x great grandfather died in an accident in 1925.

On the 1870 census in Rose Hill, Lee County, Virginia, I find 8 year old, Rachael, living with my 4x great aunt and uncle.  She is not on the 1880 census.  Of course, the 1890 census was lost, which is extremely annoying!!  The 1900 census shows that Eliza had 8 children, 7 of which were living.  My records show she had 9 children.  The 1910 census shows she gave birth to 13 children, 7 of which were living.  It can be assumed that Rachael died between 1870 and 1880.  I cannot find a newspaper story in regards to her death.  And I have not found a death certificate online. Without making a trip to Lee County and seeing if they even have records going back that far, I may never know for sure.

Maybe the most interesting census I have found is for my great grandfather, Ambrose.  On my first visit to the Minnesota Historical Society I pulled his death certificate.  His parents were listed, George Lewis and Sue Lyons.  I find them on the 1880 census in Nicholasville, Jessamine County, Kentucky (where my great grandfather was born).  The curious thing is they are listed as black, every document I have of my great grandfather lists him as white.  My great grandfather was born in 1886, his brothers in 1884 and 1888.  Of course the 1890 census is missing.  By the 1900 census, I find George still living in Nicholasville.  He is widowed and living with his 16 year old son.  His 12 year old son is living two houses down with a cousin.  They are all listed as black.  Ambrose cannot be found on the census.  In fact, he cannot be found on any census until the 1920 census, when he is found as a soldier at Fort Snelling in Minneapolis, Minnesota.  He is listed as white.  He is listed as white on his military enlistments.  He is listed as white on his death certificate.  I have read articles on black or mulatto people that "passed" as white back then and lived lives separate from their family.  I am unsure if this is the case here.  This family is my brick wall!! 

May need to plan a road trip to Kentucky...but for now I'll keep researching census reports to see what I can dig up.